Let's just start by saying that today you visited a site that will help you change what is and make it into something that fits you, works for you.

I am no expert, but I know this, nothing happens in a relationship unless you make the effort to make it happen. Are you able to say what you want to a friend? Are you able to confide in anyone about what makes you happy? If you are into someone and it seems almost impossible to gain more from that person then you have to take the first steps in making it move forward. You have to treat the person as you would anyone that you are comfortable with.

If you are together, the sex is so so, the communication is so so, what do you have to lose by being open . . . get what you want or let it go. Make sure in doing this, you are willing to give more in return

We are going to see where this blog takes us. A challenge . . . most people tend to slide into comfortable . . . rather than be who you were yesterday, set your alarm for 2 a.m., or whatever time suits you...make an ordinary night into a start of a fantasy . . . if only for your lover..reignite what you started with or start something different...see where it takes you.