That's a rough spot to be in. We all grow up with different characters or personalities that influence who we are, and how we interact with people. If you look at your parents, siblings, relatives, you will no doubt pick out one person that you are most like.
The only way to change how you interact with people, would be to take a chance, move yourself beyond your comfort zone. Have you ever watched a person walk into a room, comfortably talk to someone in the crowd and wished you could be like them? Some people are inherently talented in connecting with people.
In relationships, it works the same way . . . how many times have you moved from casual dating, communication, something deeper, and then back to talking about the weather? Unfortunately, it happens with a lot of relationships. I like to think of one question I would never ask a person, too personal, too nosy, and pick a person . . throw it out there (out of my comfort zone) and wait on a response...Amazing how freeing it can be, as well as teaching yourself to step out, be comfortable in yourself and who you are, and draws people to you. Try it.
Tell me what you do to pull someone closer, improve a relationship, take it deeper.
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